话题12人际关系(Interpersonal Relationships)
目 录
I写法指导
II Useful expressions
范文1 How to Make Friends
范文2【成都七中24个话题】如何择友演讲稿
范文3 How to Get Along with Your Parents
范文4演讲稿Being a Good Listener
范文5 【2012江苏高考卷】How to Deal with Conflicts
Practice【2009年安徽卷改编】关于父母翻看孩子日记或书包的演讲稿
I写法指导
人际关系类话题包括：介绍如何择友、如何处理自己与同学、父母和朋友之间的关系等等,一
般考查在（1）说明文和议论文中考查，如：如何交友；如何解决矛盾冲突（2）应用文的演讲稿或
建议信中考查，例如：
（1）How to Get Along with Your Parents（说明文）
（2）How to Make Friends（说明文）
（3）如何择友（应用文演讲稿）
（4）Being a Good Listener（应用文演讲稿）
（5）How to Deal with Conflicts（说明文+议论文）
（6）关于父母翻看孩子日记或书包的演讲稿（应用文演讲稿）
II Useful expressions
The importance of making good friends
(1)have fun doing sth.
(2)share happy things
(3)get help from good friends when we are in troubleencourage us to overcome difficulties
give us some suggestions
offer financial help
Ways to make good friends and deal with conflicts
(1)Qualities a good friends should have
caring， considerate 考虑周全的 kind善良的 loyal/honest/faithful忠诚的 helpful乐于助人
的 humorous 幽默的 outgoing外向的 positive，optimistic积极的,乐观的 , warm-hearted热心
的 confident自信的 patient 有耐心的 polite hard-working勤奋的 strong-willed有毅力的 gentle
绅士的 sensibleadj. 明智的，理智的talented有天赋的 clever,smart 聪明的 creative 有创造力
的 knowledgeable知识渊博的 modest 谦逊的 honest 诚实的 unselfish 无私的 generous慷慨的
(2)be a good listener
(3)care about/ pay attention to 关心，关注
(4)make friends who have similar hobbies and interests 结交爱好和兴趣相似的朋友
(5)create some chances to make friends, such as taking part in group activities both in class and out of
class.
(6)put your friend’s interests in front of yours首先考虑朋友的利益
（7）First, you must be friendly to others. Smile at others and you are sure to get a smile in
return. Think more of others than of yourself and never judge a person by his or her
appearance and clothes.
首先，你必须对他人友好。微笑待人的话你肯定会得到回报的。应多考虑他人而不是只考虑自己
（的感受或利益），并且也不能以貌取人。
（8）Second, friends should discuss rather than quarrel. When you disagree with someone,
please discuss with him or her.其次，朋友应该讨论而不是争吵。当您不同意某人时，请与他/她
讨论。
（9）What’s more, never believe in those who leave you when you are in trouble. And never
leave your friend when he or she is in trouble. Remember, a friend in need is a friend indeed.
不用相信那些在危急关头背弃你的人，也不要在朋友危难时离开他。患难见真情。
（10）Finally, friends should be faithful to each other. So long as you can put your friend’s
interests in front of yours, you will have a lot of good friends.最后，朋友应该彼此忠诚。只要
你能把朋友的利益放在自己前面，你就会有很多好朋友。
ways to deal with conflicts
have a quarrel with sb. about sth. =quarrel with sb. about sth.因为某事与某人争吵
have conflicts with sb.=conflict with sb.与某人发生冲突
(1)上周我和我的好朋友发生了争吵。
I had a quarrel with my friend last week.
My friend and I had a quarrel with each other last week.
(2)上周我和我的好朋友发生了冲突。
I had conflicts with my good friend last week.
I conflicted with my good friend last week.
(1)keep calm/cool 保持冷静(2)analyze reasons that cause the conflict
(3)communicate with each other (4)offer immediate help
(5)avoid conflicts避免冲突 (6)avoid fighting and arguing 避免打架和争吵
(7)apologize to sb. for sth.=make an apology to sb. for sth.因某事向某人道歉
(8)forgive sb. for (doing) sth.原谅某人（做了）某事
(9)put ourselves in others’place 设身处地为别人考虑
(10)Conflicts with others are common in everyday life. To avoid such conflicts, we should be kind to one
another, which is essential to enjoy a harmonious life.
在日常生活中与别人发生冲突是很普遍的。为了避免这种冲突，我们应该善待彼此，这是享受和
谐生活所必需的。
essential to对…必不可少
harmonious协调的; 和谐的，融洽的; 音调优美的; 悦耳的
（11) It is also a virtue to forgive and forget, especially in such a competitive and stressful
society.
原谅和忘记也是一种美德，特别是在这样一个充满竞争和压力的社会里。
范文1 How to Make Friends
每一个都需要朋友，但是交友的能力却是因人而异。请以“How to Make Friends”为题写一
篇文章，阐述你的观点。
注意：1.词数120词左右； 2.文章中不能出现自己的真实姓名
参考范文
How to Make Friends
Everyone needs friends. But how can we make friends?
First, you must be friendly to others. Smile at others and you are sure to get a smile in
return. Think more of others than of yourself and never judge a person by his or her appearance
and clothes.
Second, friends should discuss rather than quarrel. When you disagree with someone, please
discuss with him or her.
Finally, never believe in those who leave you when you are in trouble. And never leave
your friend when he or she is in trouble. Remember, a friend in need is a friend indeed.
Friends should be faithful to each other. So long as you can put your friend’s interests in
front of yours, you will have a lot of good friends.
Useful expressionsFriends should be faithful to each other. So long as you can put your friend’s interests in
front of yours, you will have a lot of good friends.
朋友应该以城相待。只要你首先考虑朋友的利益，你就会拥有很多好朋友。
范文2【成都七中24个话题】如何择友演讲稿(Interpersonal Relationships)
请你根据这句英语名言 “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the
friends whom we choose.”并结合自己的经历写一篇演讲稿，参加学校组织的演讲比赛，谈谈应该
如何择友。演讲内容应包括：
(1) 对这句谚语的理解；
(2) 结合自身的交友经历；
(3) 如何择友并给出建议。
注意：（1）词数120词左右；
（2）可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。
参考范文A
Good morning boys and girls,
I’m Li Hua. It’s my great honor to deliver a speech here. Today my topic is “How to Make friends”.
As a popular saying goes, “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends
whom we choose.” Good friends make our life more enjoyable. However, we should be very careful
when choosing friends because they influence our life greatly.
Take me for example. My friends Wang Wei enjoys reading very much, so he always
recommends good books to me. Gradually I begin to find pleasure in reading. Now I have formed
the habit of reading in my spare time, which benefits me a lot.
Who shall we make friends with? I’d like to choose kind and honest people, because they
will offer us help when we are in trouble. Besides, we should make friends with people who share
the same interest with us.
Useful expression
1. Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose.
生活,部分是靠我们自己创造的,还有一部分是靠我们交往的朋友创造的。
2. recommend sth./sb. to sb. 推荐sth./sb.给sb.
3. Gradually I begin to find pleasure in reading. 渐渐地，我开始在阅读中寻找乐趣。4. form the habit of doing sth. 养成做sth.的习惯
范文3 How to Get Along with Your Parents (Interpersonal Relationships)
在日常生活中，我们每天都要与人打交道。我们往往忽略了与我们每天都要面对的、最亲
近的父母之间的关系。不少同学以“代沟”为借口，拒绝与父母交流沟通。你怎样看待这个现象
呢？说说你的看法以及你与父母融洽相处的小秘诀。
写作要求：1.语言流畅，语法正确；2. 词数：120左右。
参考范文
How to Get Along with Your Parents
Nowadays, many teenagers find it hard to get along with their parents. In daily life, they may
quarrel with their parents and even have a negative attitude towards their parents ’ opinions. So, how
can we teenagers get along well with our parents？
First of all，I think we should spend more time with our parents and communicate with them.
Different generations may have different views towards one thing, but we should not use that as an
excuse to refuse to talk with our parents. Next , we should trust our parents and turn to them when we
are in trouble because they are more experienced and may help us solve our problems quickly. Besides,
we must understand our parents better. They have a lot of pressure in their work, but they still have to
spend time taking care of us.
The most important thing for us to remember is that our parents love us deeply, so it should not be
so difficult for us to understand and communicate with each other.
Useful expressions
1. In daily life, they may quarrel with their parents and even have a negative attitude towards their
parents’opinions.
在日常生活中，他们可能会与父母争吵，甚至对父母的观点持消极态度。
quarrel with sb. 与某人争吵
2. Next, we should trust our parents and turn to them when we are in trouble because they are more
experienced and may help us solve our problems quickly.
其次，我们应该相信我们的父母并且当我们遇到麻烦的时候，应该求助于他们，因为他们更有经
验，可以帮助我们迅速解决问题。
turn to sb. 求助于某人范文4演讲稿Being a Good Listener ( Interpersonal Relationships)
实现有效的沟通，建立良好的人际关系，不仅要善于言表，更要学会倾听。请你根据下表中所
提供的信息，写一篇题为“Being a Good Listener”的英文演讲稿。
为何倾听 表示尊重，增进理解，建立良好的人际关系
谁来倾听 家长倾听孩子 理解孩子，消除代沟，……
老师倾听学生 了解学生，满足需求，……
同学互相倾听 增进友谊，互帮互学，……
怎样倾听 (请考生联系自己拟定内容，列举两至三点。)
注意：1.对所给要点，逐一陈述，适当发挥，不要简单翻译。 2.词数150左右。3. 演讲稿中不得提
及考生所在学校及本人姓名。
参考范文
Good afternoon, everyone,
I’m Li Hua. It’s my great honor to deliver a speech here. The topic of my speech today is “Being a
Good Listener”.
Good listening can always show respect, promote understanding, and improve interpersonal
relationship. Many people suggest that, firstly, parents should listen more to their children, so they will
understand them better, and find it easy to narrow the generation gap. What’s more, teachers should listen
more to their students, then they can meet their needs better, and place themselves in a good relationship
with their students. Besides, students should listen more to their classmates, thus they will help and learn
from each other, and a friendship is likely to be formed.
What I want to stress is that each of us should listen more to others. Show your respect and never
stop others till they finish their talk. In addition, show you are interested by a supportive silence or a
knowing smile. Finally, be open-minded to different opinions even though you don’t like them. In a word,
good listening can really enable us to get closer t o each other .
That’s all about my speech. Thank you for your listening! Useful expressions
1. Many people suggest that, firstly, parents should listen more to their children, so they will understand
them better, and find it easy to narrow the generation gap.
许多人认为，首先，父母应该多倾听他们的孩子，使他们更好地了解他们，这样一来，他们就会发
现很容易缩小代沟。2. What I want to stress is that each of us should listen more to others.
我想强调的是我们都应该多听听别人的意见。
3. In a word, good listening can really enable us to get closer to each other.
总之，良好的倾听可以使我们得以更接近彼此。
范文5 【2012江苏高考卷】How to Deal with Conflicts ( Interpersonal Relationships)
生活中冲突时有发生。假设你班同学苏华和李江打篮球时发生争执，导致关系紧张。请你结合
此事，并根据以下提示，用英语写一篇短文，向学校英文报Happy Teens 专栏投稿。
简要描述事情的经过 打篮球、碰撞、争执等等
分析发生冲突的原因 1. 遇事不够冷静
2. ……
谈谈避免冲突的做法 （请考生根据自己的经历或感想，提出至
少两种做法）
注意：
1.对所有要点逐一陈述，适当发挥，不要简单翻译。
2.词数150词左右。开头已经写好，不计入总词数。
3.作文中不得提及有关考生个人身份的任何信息，如校名、人名等。
参考范文
Conflicts with others are common in everyday life. During the basketball game yesterday
afternoon, Su Hua and Li Jiang bumped into each other , trying to catch the ball. Then they started
shouting and yelling, and it turned out to be a horrible quarrel.
To be honest, it was Su’s fault but Li was also to blame—they were not calm enough and
both said some really mean things . They cared too much about winning and losing. As a matter
of fact, blocking, pushing and bumping are just part of a tough game.
To avoid such conflicts, we should be kind to one another, which is essential to enjoy a
harmonious life. It is also a virtue to forgive and forget, especially in such a competitive and
stressful society. Instead of blaming each other, we should communicate more and put ourselves in
others ’ place .
Don’t be self-centred and try to be considerate. We must learn to handle conflicts calmly
and wisely.Useful expressions
1. Conflicts with others are common in everyday life.
在日常生活中与别人发生冲突是很普遍的。此处的“conflict”为名词。
n. 冲突; 矛盾; 战斗; 相互干扰The two companies came into conflict. 这两家公司起了冲突。
John often comes into conflict with his boss.约翰经常和他的老板发生争执。
Her diary was a record of her inner conflict.她的日记记录了她内心的矛盾。
vi. （两种思想、信仰、说法等）冲突; 抵触; 争斗; 战斗
These results conflict with earlier findings.这些结果与早期的发现相矛盾。
2. bumped into each other 两人发生碰撞
3. said some really mean things说了一些很刻薄的话
4.To avoid such conflicts, we should be kind to one another, which is essential to enjoy a harmonious life.
为了避免这种冲突，我们应该善待彼此，这是享受和谐生活所必需的。
essential to对…必不可少
harmonious协调的; 和谐的，融洽的; 音调优美的; 悦耳的
5. It is also a virtue to forgive and forget, especially in such a competitive and stressful society.
原谅和忘记也是一种美德，特别是在这样一个充满竞争和压力的社会里。
6. put ourselves in others’ place 设身处地为别人考虑
Practice【2009 年安徽卷改编】关于父母翻看孩子日记或书包的演讲稿 (Interpersonal
Relationships)
假设你正在参加全省中学生英语演讲比赛，请你针对有些父母经常翻看孩子日记或书包这一现
象，写一篇演讲稿，并陈述你的观点。演讲稿的主要内容应包括：
（1）认为同学们不必为此苦恼；
（2）希望能够体谅父母的苦衷；
（3）建议与父母进行交流和沟通。
注意：（1）词数100左右；
（2）可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。
参考范文
Good morning， ladies and gentlemen,
My name is Li Hua. It’s my great honor to make a speech here. My topic today is “How to Deal with
Conflicts with Parents”.Some of us are having problems with our parents, as they often look into our school-bags or read
our diaries. I fully understand why we are not comfortable about it, but there’s no need to feel too sad. Our
parents are checking our bags or diaries to make sure we’re not getting into any trouble. They have probably
heard some horrible stories about other kids and thought we might do the same, or perhaps they just want to
connect with us but are doing it all wrong. My suggestion is that we tell them we want them to trust us as
much as we’d like to trust them. If you don’t think you can talk to them，write them a letter and leave it
lying around—they are bound to read it.
That’s all about my speech. Thanks for your listening!
